Our story
A Tale of Timeless Love
Tolu's POV
Our love story is a breathtaking testament to God’s intentionality in my life, a beautiful narrative woven by divine hands (and a little help from our wonderful mothers!).
On that fateful night, November 29, 2021, at exactly 9:07 PM, a WhatsApp message arrived from an international number—it was Kenny. I was in a meeting and couldn’t respond right away, but just days before, my mother had come to see me at school under the pretense of checking in on me. It was during that visit that she introduced me to her colleague’s son, painting a vivid picture of his charm and character, her excitement palpable. I promised to consider it after my medical board exams, blissfully unaware of the magic that awaited me.
When I finally read Kenny’s message, my heart skipped a beat. He was direct, expressing his desire to get to know me and explore a serious relationship with marriage in mind.
I was captivated by his clarity and sincerity, and it wasn’t long before we were talking every day, despite my earlier resolve to wait until after my exams.
Kenny is truly an answer to a prayer I never knew I was making. God, in His infinite wisdom, recognized my need for a partner like him and brought him into my life at the perfect moment. He is the epitome of goodness—always going out of his way to ensure my happiness, often at his own expense.
The way he listens to me, supports my dreams, and makes me laugh fills my heart with joy. I can’t imagine sharing this beautiful journey of life with anyone else, and I am filled with gratitude as we take this step toward forever together. With him by my side, every moment feels like a cherished blessing.
Kenny's POV
Our love story began in the most unexpected yet beautiful way. It feels almost destined now, how our paths crossed, all thanks to a bit of a nudge from our mums, who both happened to work together. They must have thought it was a good idea for us to meet, but I knew right away that if this was going to happen, I had to take the reins myself. So, I got Tolumi’s number and decided to initiate the conversation, not letting our mothers play the matchmaker role they probably envisioned.
I remember that first period of chatting with Tolumi—there was something about her that captivated me. She was kind, thoughtful, and deeply intelligent. Of course, it didn’t hurt that she was incredibly beautiful too, but her heart and her mind were what drew me in. We spent hours getting to know each other over the phone, and soon, I was hooked. Even though I was in Canada and she was in Nigeria, I knew I had to meet her in person. That time came when I returned to Nigeria for my twin sister’s wedding, and I was buzzing with excitement because, finally, I’d see her.
We had planned to meet the day after I arrived, but I decided to surprise her the same night I landed. She was in her hostel, likely not expecting much beyond the phone calls we had shared for months.
My mum called her, saying someone would come by to drop off a meal, and Tolumi, none the wiser, waited. When I knocked and she opened the door, the look on her face was priceless. She couldn’t believe I had come right after a long trip from Canada, and honestly, seeing her reaction made all the travel fatigue worth it. It felt right. It felt like the start of something I had always wanted—love in its purest form.
From that moment, we were inseparable. We spent the next few days together, laughing, talking, and deepening the bond we had built online. Those days in Nigeria, in person with her, were perfect. It was everything I imagined it would be and more. I knew from then that this was no ordinary relationship. It was love. Despite the distance that separated us most of the time, I never once doubted what we shared. We were made for each other.
Our love continued to grow despite the miles between us. We spent most of our days on FaceTime, watching movies on Rave, and just being there for each other. One of the things I treasure most about our relationship is how natural and playful it is. With Tolumi, I can truly be myself. She brings out the childlike joy in me, and our connection is filled with laughter and light-hearted moments. She’s my best friend, the one person I wouldn’t trade for anything in the world.
As I reflect on everything we’ve been through—her medical school journey, our long-distance relationship, and every high and low along the way—I feel immensely blessed. Tolumi’s smart, hardworking, and the most beautiful person, inside and out. What makes her even more special is that even when things got tough, when she was studying for her exams or dealing with the pressures of medical school, she always found time to make sure we stayed connected. That level of dedication and love from her side means the world to me.
From the very beginning, we knew we were heading towards marriage—it was just a matter of time. And now, as we stand on the cusp of that new chapter, I feel nothing but excitement. Tolumi has been my partner in everything, and I know that our future together will be just as filled with love, laughter, and endless memories as these past few years have been.